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Author Topic: My best friend, whom I also love, said she needs a boyfriend. What should I do?

July 14, 2019, 11:11:06 PM
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bobjuca2


So, long story short, I love my best friend. Today we were texting about a college subject and out of nowhere she said basically "I REALLY need a boyfriend", so I froze and answered with some jokes about Canada(she said once she wanted a Canadian boyfriend, we're Brazilian), like "You really want to delve in the Canadian winter? Their money will break", and shortly after she changed the subject, we've talking regularly ever since(this was a few hours ago). Did I screw something up here? What should I do? What could I have answered?
Note that I absolutely adore our friendship and seriously couldn't stand messing this up.

July 15, 2019, 05:05:59 AM
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Jessica999


Tell her you love her! Maybe she has the same feeling for you.

July 16, 2019, 06:33:37 PM
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ReneeOfHearts


Tell her how you feel about her, or you might end up in some unrequited friendship/relationship 10 years down the road.

July 19, 2019, 02:25:17 AM
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FelynnaFoxy


Maybe she was trying to make a move on you ? What I suggest is, next time, just say out of the blue "I need a girlfriend". See what her reaction is, who knows, it might turn out to be reciprocal !

August 01, 2019, 08:12:01 PM
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Confusedlesbo


Hey, only just came across your thread and new to this forum so not sure if you have replied with you outcome but my advice is go for it.

I was in the same boat pretty much.  I was best friends with a girl and really facied her sister, me and her sister got close and became best friends and I was certain she was straight but I told her how I felt anyway and that I didn’t want too loose out friendship over it but I had to tel her my feelings, she was fine with it at first but we was just friends and over time it got stranger and one day she kissed me, fast forward 7 years later and we’ve never looked back and with being friends first the relationship has been that much stronger although iv joined this site with a problem I 1000% think you should tell her how you feel x

August 09, 2019, 04:57:51 AM
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JTSW


See my reply to your latest post. You have now made 6 posts about the same thing. What do you want to do? Because you cant spend the rest of your life like this. You can't stay single forever because your are harboring secret feelings for a girl that will never be yours. If you want to tell her then go ahead. See what happens.

 

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