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Author Topic: Marriage & Cheating Advice - should I tell her?

May 11, 2019, 03:34:02 AM
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My ex has contacted me on and off for years now. It’s often of a sexual nature which I ignore or make it clear to him it’s not going to happen yet he still keeps trying his luck. He was never a good man to me he cheated and lied and when he got caught out red-handed he continued to lie (can’t tell the truth to save his life). He’s always been so good at fooling everyone into thinking he’s something he’s not & continues to get away with it. Maybe I shouldn’t reply at all, sometimes I completely ignore him, but I always try to give him the benefit of the doubt that he can just hold a normal conversation with me. He can’t as he always has to get sexual & his behaviour has become worse as he’s getting older.

Recently he got married & I didn’t know at the time but he was messaging me trying to arrange a hook up & being very sexual & explicit (I couldn’t believe it) after becoming a married man. What makes it worse is these messages were exchanged 2 days after he got married 😐 After seeing photos I put two and two together. My question is should I reach out to this woman or do I leave it? This guy hurt me terribly as well as many other girls & he’s always getting away with it but he’s taken it to a whole new level being married for just two days & to do what he did was disgusting. I feel disgusted for myself but especially for this woman who has no idea. I’ve been in her situation. I wanted to know the truth & it saved me from a lot of pain getting out when I did so I feel like a hypocrite for not saying anything but is it my place to & do I want that drama? The messenger always gets shot! He continues to hurt women & he seems unstoppable because he’s that good at manipulating people to believe he’s this perfect guy. Annoying thing is he’s so smart with it he uses an app to message me that doesn’t store the messages after they’ve been seen so I don’t even have that to back it up. I just feel sick for this girl & don’t know what the right thing is to do. Any advice on this would be so appreciated 😞

 

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