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Author Topic: Live-in boyfriend is a slob!

June 26, 2019, 03:17:39 PM
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Hey all!
 Me and my boyfriend of 5 years have been living together for about 2 years in an apartment, he works about 40 hours a week and I stay at home and take care of the place and our pet.

I do all of the chores such as cleaning dishes, vacuuming/sweeping, making dinner every night, etc. he takes out the garbage/recyclables, and helps with our dinner dishes (only if I ask though). Now let me say this quick: I don't mind picking up after him, really I don't! But I do feel as though he's taking advantage of my hospitality.

He leaves 1/2 full pop cans all over our bedroom, dirty dishes full of things like melted ice cream set all over our apartment, Crumbs in the bed from him eating in it... you get the picture.

I ask him a few times every week to at least throw out the food from the dishes and put hot water in them, or to pour out his pop when he's done with it, but alas, he huffs and complains every time saying "well I work all week, the dishes are your job" or "ugh..I'm comfy/tired/my feet hurt, can't I do it later??" (Mind you that 'later' never comes)

I do realize the dishes are 'my job' but I feel like...well I can't even explain it..I guess I just feel like I'm unable to get a job or anything of the sort without still having to cook and clean everything..what is a girl to do??  :-\

*Also I'd just like to add our relationship is near perfect besides this issue, but it's starting to affect my attraction to him as I'm a pretty clean person myself.

 

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