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Author Topic: Listen to my head or heart?

December 21, 2018, 12:37:59 PM
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I’m out of time to decide.
I love my bf after dating almost 6 years and he is really in love with me. He is a very loving man. Good sex and lots of laughs.
My adult daughter does not want me with him because he served time for check kiting 10 years ago. He rebuilt his life but has limited funds.
He wants to move in with me and marry as well.
He is a great partner but I don’t think I can live with him because of his financial issues since I’ve worked and saved all my life for a comfortable retirement. We are both in our 60s.

First question; my daughter arrives for the holiday this Sunday and he expects to see her but she wants nothing to do with him so how should I handle this? He knows she’s not a fan of his.

Question. What do I do with him? My head tells me to run but my heart is so attached to him.
Should I just break it off since there’s no future from my perspective? I’ve left him for short periods of time because he lied about money to me and he seems more honest and trustworthy but he still will have some ongoing money issues because he has such limited amounts.
« Last Edit: December 21, 2018, 12:41:03 PM by Confused »

December 25, 2018, 12:48:18 PM
Reply #1


I say you imagine your life without him. Whatever it is that comes out might help you decide. You say you're in your 60's, I think it's  okay to choose what makes you happy more than what makes your daughter happy.

April 11, 2019, 08:40:37 PM
Reply #2


Hi confused. I am very curious to know what the outcome of our situation was. Are you still with your bf? Did your daughter ever come around to liking him, or have you separated from him? This is a very different situation than most of the others I have read on this forum, and am hoping for a happy ending?


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