My bf and I live together and have been dating for over 2 years. He gets upset if I make plans when he’s off without asking if we are doing anything first. He feels like I don’t think about him or show courtesy of asking him if we were doing anything first. I rarely go out and since he was off 4 days I didn’t think it was a big deal to make plans for one of them. Am I wrong for not asking him if we had plans first?