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is this breaking the girl-code?

totally breaking the girl-code, aj is a no go
since alyssa hasnt made a move, why not go for him

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June 18, 2019, 09:51:12 PM
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salbybba


for context, everyone in this story is now 16 years old and just ended sophomore year.
last year, i had a crush on a boy named aj. nothing ended up coming out of my crush for him and i moved on to liking other guys.
so a long time passes and my best friend alyssa ends up becoming friends with aj. and at the time, i began to try and set them up together. alyssa agreed to me doing this, but was never clear with how she felt about aj. she often said that she was willing to give him a shot, but never said she liked him. i talked to aj about alyssa a couple times and he said he wasnt interested in dating, so i stopped trying to get them together.
now that summer has started, ive hung out with alyssa, aj, and one of aj's best friends (jax) several times as a group. and every time we hang out, i can feel my old crush for aj coming back more and more.
im still not sure about how alyssa feels about aj, but i think shes still willing to give him a shot if anything were to happen. alyssa has said that she hasnt liked anyone in a long time but she often jokes about going on double dates with jax and aj (alyssa+aj and me+jax).
would having a crush on aj break the girl-code? im scared that since i tried to set alyssa and aj up together, i gave up all rights to having feelings for him.

June 20, 2019, 04:01:42 PM
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amartna


you are free to have a crush on anyone you freakin' want to. acting on that crush is where things may start to get sticky.

it seems alyssa is not being straight up about it and isn't sure herself. unless you haven't explicitly asked her about her feelings for aj, in which case you probably should ask her about. in the end, know that if you act on the crush, you may lose valuable relationships with both alyssa and aj both.

 

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