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Author Topic: Is it possible that a gay guy falls in love with a girl?

May 11, 2019, 11:18:17 PM
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Whitefeather23


So here’s the thing:
Some months ago, I realized I had feelings for my best friend. He’s been there for me in my darkest days and in my lighter days he’s been that light. I have always had fear to be abandoned for those I love and the feeling of never been the first option. However, he makes me feel like im the only girl in the world, and in these months, we’ve grown even closer in a way that even kind of distiurbs our mutual friends haha.
When we are together we tend to get lost in our own world with our prívate jokes and games, we’ve also grown more affective as we are always huggiing each other, holding and playing with our hands and telling the other “I love you”
He takes care of me and I take care of him and I’ve honestly never felt a love so sincere as his. His love so strong I can almost touch it.
So I’ve come to the conclution that Im in love with him. I am deeply in love with him and sometimes I get the feeling that he is too.
But he is also openly gay, with i’ve always known.

Some friends of mine have told me that it seems like he feels the same way as I do. In fact, he decided to stop dating guys for a while, he hasnt had anything with anyone in the last months (casually the months we’ve been closer than ever) and when I tell him about the guy Im dating he goes into jelous mode and tells me to tell the guy that he’s the only man in my life until they earn my heart, he keeps telling me that Im his princess and no one deserves my love .

Last night, we went for some drinks with some other friends and we were drunk when I decided to put a strawberry in my mouth and dare him to eat half of it from my mouth. (To clarify thats a thing that my group of friends tend to do for fun but him and I had never tried together) in that moment, he came closer and ate half the strawberry but ínstead of backing off he stood there and we both ended up making out in a passionate way. Our Friends were shocked and after the kiss we kept Having fun as if nothing happened.

Now I cant stop thinking about it, i havent told him about it and it seems he forgot due to his drunkness (lol) but when i remember the moment Im pretty sure it was more than alcohol, it was magic.

Is it possible that he is also in love with me? Or am I just making stories  in my mind?
« Last Edit: May 12, 2019, 05:59:23 PM by Whitefeather23 »

May 13, 2019, 07:27:28 AM
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Bpenderr


Sounds like he might have some feelings for you; try asking him, if you guys ever have a heart to heart or intimate moment again, if he has feelings for you.
"It suddenly struck me that, that tiny pea, pretty and blue, was the Earth. I put up my thumb, and shut one eye, and my thumb blotted out the planet Earth. I didn't feel like a giant. I felt very, very small."
-Neil Armstrong

June 13, 2019, 05:11:44 PM
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Cutie


Maybe you could see if there can be anything, maybe he's bi, who knows.. just don't confess anything too soon, that's in 99% cases regretting haha, cause you should probably inform yourself more, like see if he feels something but not directly ask, tell him how much it means that he's by your side, or how pretty he is in your op, or something like that, and idk maybe ask him for a drink somewhere, chat, ask him for some help about job, or school to show him he's important. If everything goes smoothly maybe you can even open up about your feelings for him. (just my opinion)  :)

 

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