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Author Topic: Is he interested anymore?

September 04, 2019, 11:37:33 AM
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Somegirl246


Hello!
I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year now.
The problem is I’m worried that he’s slowly losing interest in me. I’m naturally a paranoid/ insecure person and I try not to let that overshadow my relationship since it can be annoying.

Lately I can’t seem to encourage him to do any activities I enjoy. I understand that in a relationship you don’t have to do everything together. However, when he wants to do something with his friends or family I see no problem with participating when he asks me. I find it fun and sometimes if I don’t want to go I’ll still do it for him. That’s just how I am.
When it comes down to me asking him, it’s like I’m asking him to jump off a cliff or something cause his immediate answer is almost always no. (Different excuses every time).
It makes me sad or concerned that he doesn’t seem to want to do what I enjoy.
He’s aware that he’s always declining my offers and feels guilty of it. Which leaves me doing things alone when I want to be with him. I never pressure or guilt him into participating. Has this happened to you? Any advice? Thanks in advance

September 04, 2019, 01:17:25 PM
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Lulu1441


There's surely something going on, if you noticed some differences. It could be that the problem is between you and him, but it could be also caused by something else. Is he maybe having a bad time at work? Or, did he have any recent disappointment?
Btw, the best way to go through this is to talk to him.

September 04, 2019, 02:09:07 PM
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Somegirl246


Thank you for your lovely advice, embarrassingly though, I’m afraid to bring this up. He and I have anxiety, which sometimes feels like walking on eggshells to not upset him. Things are going “relatively well” for him. I was hoping to hear about other people’s experiences before talking to him about it.  :-[

 

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