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Author Topic: Is he being selfish?

February 02, 2019, 01:33:31 PM
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Lisalisa


Myself and my partner moved in together 5 weeks ago.
I have 2 girls who live with us and he has a son that stays every Tuesday and every other weekend fri-mon.
Now I know this is silly,but I need to know it's not me!
He likes the radio on in the kitchen...all day every day,he walks into the kitchen when he wakes,turns it on and it stays on until he goes up to bed.
This morning he does the same,makes his coffee and comes to sit in the living room.
I ask him if he has always done that and honestly said it annoys me with radios and teles going on in every room all day.
He has told me he likes it on and it is tuff if I don't!
Also,his son is here again with music blaring and 1when I ask if he can tell him to turn it down he argues with me.
I feel he is being very selfish and isn't trying to work at living together atall.
It seems to be his way or the highway.
How can i make him see what he is doing?

February 03, 2019, 01:32:35 AM
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winstonjack


I doubt you will make him see your side of the story. Sorry to say, but he seems set in his ways and if anything, it may get worse. The more it plays on your nerves the more you two will argue. It is up to you if you want to live a life of my way or no way but you may want to think hard and long before time has made it harder to break away.

February 03, 2019, 04:48:57 AM
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maggie909


Just turn it off when he goes to bed for him or ask him to turn it down.