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August 07, 2018, 07:34:11 AM
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camanswer2018


I never understood why people cheat, let alone how they can do it. So, it really struck me when I read in a love tour testimonials that “couples really encounter cheating at least once in their entire relationship.” Does it really work that way? Is it really a part of the so-called love journey? Because I simply don’t get it at all. So do you just expect your significant other to cheat on you eventually because relationships really experience infidelity at least once? Someone clarify this for me.





August 07, 2018, 12:10:40 PM
Reply #1

Lissiel


Cheating is a mistake committed by your partner, a lot of relationships had been cheated by their or was cheating on their partner. Though cheating will never be right whatever your partner's reason.  I can say that cheating is not a part of a relationship but is a part of a personality of a person. Some people get easily tempted, some do it for pleasure or fun and some are really born not being faithful. people do mistake almost every day and they make a bad decision that could hurt other people--even their loved ones. And cheating is one of the common mistakes that people do. It's not because they're in a relationship, but they chose to do it. They don't consider the consequence of their action.

The sad fact is, anyone can cheat--even the kindest and honest person you know. You can't control what they'll do because it's their life, everyone can decide on their own. But don't hold yourself from entering into a relationship because of this. I know we have fears to get hurt, but I think it's more frightening not to experience how to love.

August 07, 2018, 01:58:51 PM
Reply #2

NesMarcos


In my opinion, I think cheating is a part of every relationship because temptation is always there and people are easily used to it. Nevertheless, it still depends on the couple how they are going to treasure what they have for each other and so cheating can be avoided.

Needless to say, having a warm relationship with your partner can make cheating impossible to happen. 

August 07, 2018, 02:41:04 PM
Reply #3

RoseKaizer


Temptation is always there especially in a relationship. Cheating is a part of a relationship, but if you really that person you give him a second chance make him or her prove to you that she or he really sorry about what he does.

August 07, 2018, 03:43:35 PM
Reply #4

jaymish


That has been the practice especially in men(I know women also cheat but who its mostly men according to statistics). Some women just accept this as fact. The brave ones say no and refuse to stay in relationships that are characterized by cheating. I think if you cheat as a person, you are not ready to enter a relationship and should not pretend that you are. It shows your level of maturity or lack thereof. A relationship is a commitment, if you can't stay in it or keep your promise, you should get out. As the famous saying goes you can't have your cake and it. People should not tolerate cheating, if you must walk away.

August 08, 2018, 05:33:19 AM
Reply #5

camanswer2018


Cheating is a mistake committed by your partner, a lot of relationships had been cheated by their or was cheating on their partner. Though cheating will never be right whatever your partner's reason.  I can say that cheating is not a part of a relationship but is a part of a personality of a person. Some people get easily tempted, some do it for pleasure or fun and some are really born not being faithful. people do mistake almost every day and they make a bad decision that could hurt other people--even their loved ones. And cheating is one of the common mistakes that people do. It's not because they're in a relationship, but they chose to do it. They don't consider the consequence of their action.

The sad fact is, anyone can cheat--even the kindest and honest person you know. You can't control what they'll do because it's their life, everyone can decide on their own. But don't hold yourself from entering into a relationship because of this. I know we have fears to get hurt, but I think it's more frightening not to experience how to love.

I agree with your opinion on this. I feel like it really depends on the person, but the people that do cheat often do so without thinking of the consequences of their actions. While yes, it is a common mistake that people do but like you said, it doesn't make it ok. I guess we all just have to find the right person that we can trust- even if they might cheat or hurt us in some other way. Experiencing love is better than not feeling it at all.

August 08, 2018, 05:36:38 AM
Reply #6

camanswer2018


In my opinion, I think cheating is a part of every relationship because temptation is always there and people are easily used to it. Nevertheless, it still depends on the couple how they are going to treasure what they have for each other and so cheating can be avoided.

Needless to say, having a warm relationship with your partner can make cheating impossible to happen.

Reading this makes me feel really sad, especially thinking how the person you trust the most can easily hurt you by giving into temptation. I suppose it all depends on how the couple works through issues that have to do with cheating. :-\

August 08, 2018, 05:39:22 AM
Reply #7

camanswer2018


That has been the practice especially in men(I know women also cheat but who its mostly men according to statistics). Some women just accept this as fact. The brave ones say no and refuse to stay in relationships that are characterized by cheating. I think if you cheat as a person, you are not ready to enter a relationship and should not pretend that you are. It shows your level of maturity or lack thereof. A relationship is a commitment, if you can't stay in it or keep your promise, you should get out. As the famous saying goes you can't have your cake and it. People should not tolerate cheating, if you must walk away.

I completely agree with this! I can't believe how some people can simply tolerate a cheating partner. I think it will only serve to hurt them more in the long run, since the other party will take advantage of their tolerance. I think it's better to walk away from a cheating partner because if it's so easy for them to hurt the other, it's probably not worth the pain and stress to be with them.

August 08, 2018, 09:41:43 AM
Reply #8

Corzhens


Cheating is a no-no in a relationship. The moment I find out that my partner is cheating on me then that is surely a goodbye. In the courtship stage, it is usual for the guy to profess his love and fidelity. But somehow that pledge is forgotten when the relationship lasts for a time. When love fades and the other party cheats then the relationship is considered ruined. For first time offenders, they say that a second chance should be given. But for me, there is no second chance.

August 08, 2018, 09:54:32 AM
Reply #9

alymae


Cheating is not a part of relationship. Temptation is the part, not cheating. Their is always gonna be trials. In a relationship you don't grow if you don't have one. In my opinion, if a person cheats the first time then it might be forgiven. But if he/ she does it again, then, you know what to do. For me a person that keeps on cheating doesn't have any care and respect for you. If he cares or loves you, why would he cheat? Cheating is only for those people who are weak in character and doesn't truly love you. I've read that people who remains faithful to their partner are intelligent people. So if you don't cheat, count yourself as intelligent.

August 10, 2018, 12:10:52 PM
Reply #10

Keira05


Cheating is not a part of relationship. Temptation is the part, not cheating. Their is always gonna be trials. In a relationship you don't grow if you don't have one. In my opinion, if a person cheats the first time then it might be forgiven. But if he/ she does it again, then, you know what to do. For me a person that keeps on cheating doesn't have any care and respect for you. If he cares or loves you, why would he cheat? Cheating is only for those people who are weak in character and doesn't truly love you. I've read that people who remains faithful to their partner are intelligent people. So if you don't cheat, count yourself as intelligent.

I totally agree with you on this! I have experienced this relationship where I am cheated on and my partner thinks that he can get away with it until my bestfriend told me that he had seen my partner with another person and is intimate so we made ourr own investigatoin and caught them in the act of kissing in public. So there right then I broke up with him because I cannot take it that my partner would kiss another and it feels something has taken away from me and that's the trust, respect and faith that I invested which is gone to trash. Just love yourself and know your worth and all things will fall into place

August 11, 2018, 11:19:12 AM
Reply #11

Martinsx


In my opinion, I think cheating is a part of every relationship because temptation is always there and people are easily used to it. Nevertheless, it still depends on the couple how they are going to treasure what they have for each other and so cheating can be avoided.

Needless to say, having a warm relationship with your partner can make cheating impossible to happen.

It's painful to admit that cheating is part of a relationship but sadly it's the negative part of relationship that should be avoided like a plague because it's like a cancer in relationship which would eventually kill off and bring the relationship to a sour end.

If your feelings in your current relationship has been compromised, it's better to inform your partner and either try to work on it or end the relationship on a good note instead of cheating one's way through in the relationship.

August 11, 2018, 12:16:54 PM
Reply #12

Rita101


Cheating is not part of my own relationship, I would never cheat on my partner and once my partner cheats on me and I happen to find out what he had done, it's the end of the relationship.

August 11, 2018, 01:40:56 PM
Reply #13

Lissiel


Cheating is not part of a relationship, but it's part of every person's personality or decision. It's one of the mistake or decision that people will do. Since we have all the power to decide we can't control it. And cheating will never be right whatever their reason is, that for me cheating will always be selfishness. People do things for their pleasure and I can't say sometimes but most of the times their way of pressure is wrong and that cheating is one of it.

Cheating is very common because most people are selfish and they're only thinking of their happiness and pleasure. But still, it's not impossible to find someone who is loyal. Yes, it would be very hard. The only thing I can advice is knowing a man/woman not only through his/her personality or experiences, but also know how he decides things especially in his negative time.

August 11, 2018, 01:56:13 PM
Reply #14

wallet


Cheating happens in a weak relationship where something goes wrong, the partner who cheats doesn't love its mate. I don't think that cheating is a part of any relationship, my parents were together for 50 years and they had never cheat one another, and I know many more relationships like this one.

August 15, 2018, 11:59:54 PM
Reply #15

vashuan


Absolutely,  NO.  It is no longer a relationship if it is a part.  A relationship must have focus and determination to keep one  another intact with their endeavors for years ahead of them.  Until they grow old.  Therefore,  cheating has no room in a relationship.  If ever cheating is a part in a relationship.  There will be no grandparents who are still so sweet in  family pictures.

 

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