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March 29, 2020, 01:14:03 PM
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Hello, I need some advice. I upset my boyfriend last night and now he wont talk to me.

It started because I wanted to have sex, and he said that sex is all about me and my orgasm and so when I ask for it I am just thinking about me. I tried to talk to him about the fact that I dont feel like we are sexually a team anymore, and he started to argue. So i said he doesn't listen to me. And then I said I couldn't remember the last time he said sorry or taken board what I was saying. This was not very fair, he doesn't ever say sorry to be fair, but he does listen to me even if he argues back.

Anyway he got really mad and called me a c*** and to f*** off and went to sleep. I have tried to talk to him today but he says he doesnt want to talk to me. I wrote letter to him saying sorry and telling him how much appreciate everything he does but that I don't always feel understood and struggle to get my point accross. He has told me he will not read it at any point. I asked him if he would like me to leave the flat and stay somewhere else for a bit to give him space, and he said sarcastically if i honestly think that would in any way help the solution then yeah I should probably get out. I also asked him if he wanted to work on the relationship and he told me I was being melodramatic, that he doesn't want to break up, but that he is done trying...

So I don't know what to do. I feel like I can't leave, I can't talk to him about it, and this wont blow over. I want to be able to talk to him about issues but I feel like the trust is lost and I'm making it worse.

For context we are in our mid 20s and have been together for nearly 6 years. I am bad at backing down in arguments and twisting what I say and we have had many arguments about the fact that I say sorry but then dont change anything. I am worried I have really upset him, and that he will stop trying in our relationship because he thinks I don't appreciate it. It has already started to go that way, bit by bit over the years.

I just don't know what I can do to get to him to 1. to understand that I really am sorry 2. feel appreciated again 3. improve our communication and become more of a team.

PLEASE HELP x
« Last Edit: March 29, 2020, 01:23:14 PM by dazedandconfusedfox »

 

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