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Author Topic: Please help me out I am really depressed

March 31, 2019, 04:02:53 PM
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Dark lord


I had a friend(female) she was a really close one...she used to come and talk to me wherever I am..at the beginning I kinda thought It was annoying and I tried to ignore her but then she kept doing it and I started liking her as a friend....we know each other for like 2 to 3 months and I really liked her has a friend cuz her personality is exactly opposite to mine, she was very lively and she talks with everyone...I considered her has a really close friend and she used to share some of her problem with me...recently her roomate told her that I used to have a crush on her(which was true but it was really really minor) after I got to knw abt this I confronted her and told her face to face that what I had towards her was really really a minor thing and it got over within a few days and that' to I had this feeling for her many months ago when I dint clearly knew her properly...I knew the conversation was awkward but I had to clear it out cuz I really valued our friendship and I don't want her to think that I broke her trust. The prob now is that ryt after this hapoened it's been like one week now and she stopped talking to me like before, it's just hi and bye now...and that to I have to forcebly make an eye contact so I asked one of my friends to ask her whether everything is alright and she told that she is chill with it and she stopped talking to me after all this liking thing. I have never let her know that I liked her nor have acted anyway indecent with her but its very depressing when she is like this now...my friends said not to go talk abt this to her cuz it will only make things worse or it wouldn't improve things at all...I just want everything back to being  normal, i dint want our friendship to end this way and I really don't know what I am supposed to do?I am really depressed ryt now cuz she goes and talks to my friends and ignores me which makes me sad at cuz she was never like that to me. If someone could help me by giving me an advice it would be really helpful
Thankyou
« Last Edit: April 01, 2019, 12:12:57 PM by Dark lord »

April 06, 2019, 07:05:13 PM
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Lilpete


Dear
Don't forget to remind yourself everyday of the blessings that you have. It may be difficult to see them at the situation you're in right now but try assertion. Tell yourself that you're blessed. Convince yourself of the great things by your side and you will eventually see them in a new light.
Keep fighting. You are stronger than you know.

 

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