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February 02, 2020, 08:39:19 PM
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Vic


So ive been dating this girl for a few months now and everything is great when we're together. She funny we laugh and smile and have a great time in whatever we do. We just really do well together. Buuut i have this wierd feeling i cant trust her. Please tell my reasons are crazy and that im just thinking to much.

February 03, 2020, 11:55:05 AM
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Jacs1983


Start by asking yourself is your gut actually telling you something or do you have insecurities you haven't dealt with yet? 80% of the time, I feel, like the gut is correct. If there's something nagging you about this girl and you can't openly speak about it with her, it may be time to just move along!

February 05, 2020, 05:58:03 PM
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OHB4Life


It would depend on if you’ve been trough that experience or not and that are u also, cheating or have been cheated on the past or am now and that’s why you feel the way you do.

If either is the case, it’s just about trust issues.  And her actions when she is not with you. Plus it’s only been a few months.

February 06, 2020, 02:52:11 PM
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joeyreyeslove


Does she give you any reasons, to not trust her?

February 07, 2020, 01:48:12 PM
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DoubleDrake


What is causing this feeling? Is it something she is doing or is it an insecurity in yourself? If it's stemming from simply not wanting to lose her, those are normal feelings. Does she express to you how she feels about you? Does she make you feel secure? I would try to identify what is causing those feelings. If it's something she's doing, I would be honest with her. Tell her those actions create some level of concern in you. If you're simply falling in love and don't want to lose her - then embrace those feelings! Recognize them as love instead of insecurity. Love requires us to give away some level of trust and vulnerability to the other person. It's scary, but it's required if the relationship is meant to keep growing.

 

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