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September 18, 2018, 09:30:13 AM
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zeke8412


I had a long-time girlfriend before of four years. Three months after celebrating our fourth anniversary, I caught her cheating with my friend. I caught them red-handed which is why I broke up with her without further explanation. I took the opportunity my work has given me to work abroad for three years to manage a project we were trying to develop in Peru. Everyone in the managing team and even some of the other workers knew I just came from a breakup so they persuaded me to go clubbing with them and play around with some Peru women while I was there. I decided to just get along. I played around with whomever I came across there. I guess that was my way of trying to cope up with the situation I was in. I was nicknamed as “el jugador”. It was okay at first until I developed feelings for this certain woman. However, I find it difficult for her to believe me because of what I did before. I did change, I courted her and showed her that I was genuine and my intentions are pure but she still doesn't believe me. How do you think should make her believe me?

September 28, 2018, 03:07:35 PM
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I had a long-time girlfriend before of four years. Three months after celebrating our fourth anniversary, I caught her cheating with my friend. I caught them red-handed which is why I broke up with her without further explanation. I took the opportunity my work has given me to work abroad for three years to manage a project we were trying to develop in Peru. Everyone in the managing team and even some of the other workers knew I just came from a breakup so they persuaded me to go clubbing with them and play around with some Peru women while I was there. I decided to just get along. I played around with whomever I came across there. I guess that was my way of trying to cope up with the situation I was in. I was nicknamed as “el jugador”. It was okay at first until I developed feelings for this certain woman. However, I find it difficult for her to believe me because of what I did before. I did change, I courted her and showed her that I was genuine and my intentions are pure but she still doesn't believe me. How do you think should make her believe me?

Hi @zeke8412, sorry to hear that you went through a tough time. Thanks for posting.

It's a difficult one, especially when you recently break up with your other half.

Every woman moving forward from there will then presume that they're a rebound.

From my experience dealing with this there isn't a lot you can do, other than reassure them and to make it clear that your relationship didn't work out and that you have moved on.

It's taken some time in my experience for these women to get over the fact that you recently broke up with your other half, but in time they will learn to accept it.

Let us know how you get on.

 

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