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Author Topic: I have feelings toward my teacher, help!

December 30, 2019, 06:02:09 AM
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Its_Greeeeeny


Hi,

I'm a 22 year old male and I recently discovered a passion to learn languages, I've been searching for a Chinese tutor for over a month and found the one I'm currently seeing to this day.

She's an excellent teacher and I very much like how she works with me.
However, with time, I notice that everytime we don't talk about the Chinese class, we have great conversations and laugh a lot together, I can't help but to start developing feelings for her, personality wise, she's everything I would like in a girl.

My problem is that I'm still very passionate about learning Chinese and I really don't want to lose this teacher by telling her this, honestly I have no idea if she likes me or not.
But on the other hand, the fact that I don't want to tell her and keeping this feeling inside me is making me struggle mentally.

I could use some help, ask questions if you need to and I will answer, also for those wondering:
I've been seeing her for: A month and a half
How old is she: No idea, but if I'd have to guess around 26


December 30, 2019, 03:07:07 PM
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Neur0t


I think there's 2 courses of action here:

If your feelings are making you struggle to learn you may as well just tell her how you feel and if it compromises the teaching process at least it already seemed compromised.

The other option would be to finish up your learning and then find a way to keep in touch with her afterwards then let her know how you're feeling.

Either way you shoot your shot.

December 30, 2019, 07:28:23 PM
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Its_Greeeeeny


I think there's 2 courses of action here:

If your feelings are making you struggle to learn you may as well just tell her how you feel and if it compromises the teaching process at least it already seemed compromised.

The other option would be to finish up your learning and then find a way to keep in touch with her afterwards then let her know how you're feeling.

Either way you shoot your shot.
My feelings aren't really conflicting with my learning in any way, I think it might be doing the opposite  :P

 

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