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June 16, 2019, 06:24:04 PM
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monkeyface


I looked at my phone for 6 seconds before the movie started, and he scolded me saying "put your phone away!" I felt controlled and upset, I don't usually look at my phone in a movie but we happened to be the only people in the theater.  Afterwards I expressed to him that I decided it was ok to use my phone for a few seconds as we were alone in the theater and that I wished he'd respect my judgement and not make me feel controlled by his own rules (he's a stickler for following the rules).  I told him in the future to not be so personally offended by my phone use and to respect me. He should know that I'm a decent person and wouldn't distract his movie enjoyment for long periods of phone checking.  Now we've been arguing for 5 hours because he thinks I need to apologize for ruining his movie experience and that I need to be more mindful and not look at my phone, even if it's just the two of us in the theater.  Am I in the wrong here for thinking that he should be more understanding and apologetic? I know that if he checked his phone I wouldn't have any emotional response to it so I expect the same from him.

June 17, 2019, 11:12:16 PM
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AnonymousWoman31


I personally don’t think you’re in the wrong but if I were you, I would apologize and just move on. If he’s a stickler for rules than I doubt he was trying to control you, but that would have annoyed me as well. Totally understand why you’re upset but if that’s his thing I guess I can see why he’s upset too.

June 21, 2019, 03:10:10 PM
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Gemneyes


I agree with you.  I think he lacks respect and needs to get over himself.

 

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