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Author Topic: How to move on after being cheated on

June 26, 2019, 05:02:52 PM
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Ladykoraki


I'm going to keep this story short. Me and my fiance have been together for almost five years and in December this year we would be engaged for one year.

About two years ago we broke up and three months after the breakup we got back together thinking things would be better. A month or so into dating again I found out he was talking to another woman a few months before webbroke up and when we broke up he went to another state to see her and do other things. Of course naturally I blew up. Who wouldn't? We were rocky  for almost A year before things seemed to improve and go back to "normal"

But lately I've been having a lot of doubts, I feel like things are crumbling apart and coming undone. I love him and I know that... I wouldn't of said yes if I didn't. But there's always that fear in the back of my head that he's going to cheat again and there's also the "what if I'm not good enough" question sitting in the back of my head. Any advice???

June 27, 2019, 11:04:02 AM
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Martina


I think it will be good idea to tell him what did you find out and ask him why he did it where was the problem!! Honestlly i did almost same thing in my relationship break (we broke up for a week ) and i slept with one guy because I just needed to feel attractive again to feel that hehas desire for me (my boyfriend had desire but we had sex once a month) maybe he just wanted sex no love or something different.. you are together with him so he wants to be with you but i dont like that he did it in relationship so it is up to you! Because many people said “ if he cheat once he will cheat more” ask him why he did it tell him how you feel and mostly ask him if he really loves you because cheating is proof of disrespect to you!!!

June 27, 2019, 07:37:38 PM
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Brent


Hard to have faith once heart is broken. I’m going though same
Situation blame
Myself , so why do we
Settle is the big question when there are
Those that would
Never cheat and remain loyal

 

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