Author Topic: How to handle your girlfriend's premenstrual syndrome (PMS)?

JackOAT · April 10, 2018, 11:35:28 PM

She might feel happy at one moment, and within a few minutes, she could be in tears. This is frustrating for me as she gets upset with me even when I feel that I have done nothing wrong.

When my girlfriend has PMS, she often tells me she wants to break up? What can I do about this?

EasyDeasy · April 11, 2018, 03:57:52 AM

There's really nothing to do but put up with it. Wait for it to pass.

You have to understand that your girlfriend is going through serious hormonal and chemical imbalances -- it's very uncomfortable for her. Put yourself in her shoes. Imagine what she would want -- maybe someone to massage her scalp, hug her, make her feel cozy -- and then be that person. That's the best thing you can do.

Staff · April 11, 2018, 08:58:49 AM

Quote from: EasyDeasy on April 11, 2018, 03:57:52 AM

There's really nothing to do but put up with it. Wait for it to pass.

You have to understand that your girlfriend is going through serious hormonal and chemical imbalances -- it's very uncomfortable for her. Put yourself in her shoes. Imagine what she would want -- maybe someone to massage her scalp, hug her, make her feel cozy -- and then be that person. That's the best thing you can do.

Great response, I completely agree!

erik · April 12, 2018, 02:23:16 AM

Quote from: Support on April 11, 2018, 08:58:49 AM

Quote from: EasyDeasy on April 11, 2018, 03:57:52 AM
There's really nothing to do but put up with it. Wait for it to pass.

You have to understand that your girlfriend is going through serious hormonal and chemical imbalances -- it's very uncomfortable for her. Put yourself in her shoes. Imagine what she would want -- maybe someone to massage her scalp, hug her, make her feel cozy -- and then be that person. That's the best thing you can do.

Great response, I completely agree!

My friend used to give his girlfriend chocolate everytime she had pms and she would start scolding him on why he buy that brand of chocolate

Jasonn · April 12, 2018, 11:37:23 PM

I'd say just ignore it. I mean, unless she really acts on things I suppose you could take it with a grain of salt. Anyway, I see the same thing with my elderly mom. She says strange things, but it would be foolish to take it seriously.

zokilee · April 19, 2018, 07:54:56 AM

Tolerance and calmness is something that you must master. It's something that you are learning all your life. Most time when my fiance have those days I usually try to be calm and not let her words affect me. Reason is simple,the 90% of bad words that are said in those moments are simple not true its just anger and bad mood that is coming out from someone who does not feel well.

Patrick Y · April 27, 2018, 09:48:41 PM

I have no experience with this but I have a sister with a bi-polar similar condition. Anyway, I'd say the way to deal with it is to ignore it. Don't let her make you miserable!

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