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Author Topic: How to deal with gf who's not over with her ex yet?

September 12, 2018, 09:04:33 AM
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frank29


My girlfriend is not over with her ex-boyfriend yet and I don’t know if I should let her go because of that or help her move on and wait until she finally loves me for real. When we go out on a date, I sometimes noticed her thinking deep while looking at her phone. She sometimes reread her conversation with her ex. When we were eating at a foreign restaurant one time, she only stared at her food, probably thinking something from the past. I even don’t know if she’s happy being with me. I never heard her say she loves me. I love her but this relationship is not healthy. Should I let her go now?

September 12, 2018, 04:30:04 PM
Reply #1

goodevening


My girlfriend is not over with her ex-boyfriend yet and I don’t know if I should let her go because of that or help her move on and wait until she finally loves me for real. When we go out on a date, I sometimes noticed her thinking deep while looking at her phone. She sometimes reread her conversation with her ex. When we were eating at a foreign restaurant one time, she only stared at her food, probably thinking something from the past. I even don’t know if she’s happy being with me. I never heard her say she loves me. I love her but this relationship is not healthy. Should I let her go now?

Personally, I would end the relationship, as it sounds like you're a re-bound (it sounds nasty, but it could be the case).

If she could get back with him right now, do you think she would?

Also, why did they break up in the first place?

September 13, 2018, 01:36:20 PM
Reply #2

frank29


I do not know the reason why they broke up and I never bothered to ask after she told me she doesn't want to discuss about it. We talked about the situation though and she told me she is just having a hard time adjusting.

September 15, 2018, 04:10:41 PM
Reply #3

goodevening


I do not know the reason why they broke up and I never bothered to ask after she told me she doesn't want to discuss about it. We talked about the situation though and she told me she is just having a hard time adjusting.

I think your best bet is to try and move on. It will be hard at first, but in time, you'll be all OK.

Surround yourself with positive people, friends and family members. Keep yourself occupied and it may be worth even signing up to some dating sites? (if this will help you move on).

It's time to focus on yourself a little! Do the things that you love.

 

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