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Author Topic: How do you know if you're a boring bf?

August 16, 2018, 09:24:06 AM
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boringme28


My past relationships didn’t last because they said I’m uninteresting to be with. Most of my ex-girlfriends told me I am indeed boring and loving me is suffocating. I don’t understand why. Maybe because I’m really busy at work? But I make time for them always. I am sweet. I never failed to make them feel loved and wanted. I really don’t know what makes me a boring boyfriend. If choosing to have a private relationship is boring, then I guess I am. I’m not just fond of boasting my relationship over social media. If that is what they mean, then I am guilty.










August 16, 2018, 01:30:48 PM
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goodevening


My past relationships didn’t last because they said I’m uninteresting to be with. Most of my ex-girlfriends told me I am indeed boring and loving me is suffocating. I don’t understand why. Maybe because I’m really busy at work? But I make time for them always. I am sweet. I never failed to make them feel loved and wanted. I really don’t know what makes me a boring boyfriend. If choosing to have a private relationship is boring, then I guess I am. I’m not just fond of boasting my relationship over social media. If that is what they mean, then I am guilty.

Hmm, it's a difficult one, as everyone perception of 'boring' is different.

There honestly could be lots of reasons why she thinks you're a boring boyfriend.

Are you affectionate? Do you give her attention? Do you like to kiss, cuddle, hold hands, etc?

How is your sex life? Is your sex life relatively plain? Or is your sex life quite creative and adventurous?

She may like or dislike the fact that you aren't into social media, she may be the girl of girlfriend that would love it if you plastered her face all of your social profile. Sometimes they like reassurance.

What's your personality like? This may be a hard one to reflect on as you're talking about yourself, but are you quite an outgoing person? Do you laugh a lot? Do you joke around? If not (which it may be hard to admit to ) then this may be the reason why your girlfriend thinks that you're boring.

Lots of reasons, I hope you get to the bottom of it though, it's worth a good chat with her. Let us know how you get on.

 

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