Hello,

I have a very gentle boyfriend that I really love. I usually don't complain about anything but he does if he doesn't like something. I told him multiple times during fights that he takes my time, drain my energy, once I told him he ruined my life and that he doesn't let me work if I go see him (we have a long-distance relationship). He started to complain more about these things and had become pickier and exaggerates my comments, so I told him he is fragile and touchy. he said I'm saying he is weak and not a man. The last time I said something that just implied he is messing up my schedule. He exploded and said he cannot live like this and he cannot take it anymore. He told me I make him feel insignificant and like a nag. The comment and talking about it over and over again made me mad because it makes me feel I'm a bad person.
 
Isn't he overreacting? what should I do? What would have been a better way to handle this?