So I'm in a committed relationship. My girlfriend and I have been together almost 3 years.  I love her more than anything me she is my world. As with most relationships, there has been ups and downs.

     We were long distance for about a year and a half. I dropped everything and moved there when she needed me. We lived together about a year, when she kicked me out and I moved back home to start over. I was lucky enough to move back and go right back into my old job. We continued talking, as I hadn't given up on us. A few months passed and she said she wanted to move here. I knew packing would be hard for her. Finally one night I could tell something was off. I actually talked to her best friend and we both decided to send a cop over for welfare check. I booked a flight at 2 am and texted my boss, from the airport, that I wouldn't be in for a few days. I took a week off, packed her up and moved her here.

     The beginning was rough. She didn't know anyone here and she went through a lot of depression. My work slowed for about 5 months and I scraped to make ends meet. Things have gotten better with work. Things picked up and I've moved up.

     I'm lost because there's nothing I wouldn't do or give to this girl. She constantly reminds me of how she hates it here. I can read her pretty well. I can tell when she is off or something is bothering her. I'll ask what's wrong or bothering her. In turn she gets mad and asks why I always assume something is wrong. Then a few cold and distant days later it comes out, along with the entire book of things she keeps that I've ever done. Although I may not agree or see things the same, I do listen. I do my best to prioritize fixing whatever it is bothering her. In the end I always feel like nothing I ever do is good enough.

     Lately she's been cold and distant. There's no I love yous or warm embraces. Whenever I kiss her, she turns a cheek to me or when I hug her she just stands there motionless. I come into the room to talk or go to bed and she instantly picks up her book from the nightstand and busies herself.

     What do I do?