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Author Topic: He was the one that got away.

August 29, 2018, 09:49:37 AM
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failure93


We always have that one person in our life who we think is indeed the one meant for us. However, in the long run, we come to realize that they are actually not. They only become part of our lives to leave us with mind and life-changing lessons. Two years ago, I have met a guy who swept me off my feet. He was very ideal and I thought he really is the one for me. I had always love the idea of him and me together. I was always clouded with the idea of him loving me until our hair turns white and vice versa. I thought that was forever but I was wrong. After a year of dating him, something bad happened. He got his ex impregnated. I was so broken when I chose to leave him but I always knew I made the right choice. I fixed myself and got on with my life. Now, I just got married with the man who really is for me. Someone whom God has sent for me.




August 29, 2018, 02:05:22 PM
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We always have that one person in our life who we think is indeed the one meant for us. However, in the long run, we come to realize that they are actually not. They only become part of our lives to leave us with mind and life-changing lessons. Two years ago, I have met a guy who swept me off my feet. He was very ideal and I thought he really is the one for me. I had always love the idea of him and me together. I was always clouded with the idea of him loving me until our hair turns white and vice versa. I thought that was forever but I was wrong. After a year of dating him, something bad happened. He got his ex impregnated. I was so broken when I chose to leave him but I always knew I made the right choice. I fixed myself and got on with my life. Now, I just got married with the man who really is for me. Someone whom God has sent for me.

You're completely right, I believe at some stage we all go through a bad breakup.

I am very glad to hear that you've moved on with your life though and managed to find love elsewhere, good on you!

Out of curiosity, did he cheat on you (to get his ex-pregnant?).

August 30, 2018, 08:47:46 AM
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We always have that one person in our life who we think is indeed the one meant for us. However, in the long run, we come to realize that they are actually not. They only become part of our lives to leave us with mind and life-changing lessons. Two years ago, I have met a guy who swept me off my feet. He was very ideal and I thought he really is the one for me. I had always love the idea of him and me together. I was always clouded with the idea of him loving me until our hair turns white and vice versa. I thought that was forever but I was wrong. After a year of dating him, something bad happened. He got his ex impregnated. I was so broken when I chose to leave him but I always knew I made the right choice. I fixed myself and got on with my life. Now, I just got married with the man who really is for me. Someone whom God has sent for me.

You're completely right, I believe at some stage we all go through a bad breakup.

I am very glad to hear that you've moved on with your life though and managed to find love elsewhere, good on you!

Out of curiosity, did he cheat on you (to get his ex-pregnant?).

Yes, we do. And that one was the worst break-up I have ever experienced.

Thank you so much! I shared this story of mine because I want those people who feel like they're in a rock bottom at this very moment to bear in mind that there is something and someone better ahead of us.

You're right. I got cheated on. I didn't know that they were still seeing each other behind my back while we were in a relationship, so that's why it happened. But I have forgiven them both.


September 05, 2018, 08:15:06 PM
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We always have that one person in our life who we think is indeed the one meant for us. However, in the long run, we come to realize that they are actually not. They only become part of our lives to leave us with mind and life-changing lessons. Two years ago, I have met a guy who swept me off my feet. He was very ideal and I thought he really is the one for me. I had always love the idea of him and me together. I was always clouded with the idea of him loving me until our hair turns white and vice versa. I thought that was forever but I was wrong. After a year of dating him, something bad happened. He got his ex impregnated. I was so broken when I chose to leave him but I always knew I made the right choice. I fixed myself and got on with my life. Now, I just got married with the man who really is for me. Someone whom God has sent for me.

You're completely right, I believe at some stage we all go through a bad breakup.

I am very glad to hear that you've moved on with your life though and managed to find love elsewhere, good on you!

Out of curiosity, did he cheat on you (to get his ex-pregnant?).

Yes, we do. And that one was the worst break-up I have ever experienced.

Thank you so much! I shared this story of mine because I want those people who feel like they're in a rock bottom at this very moment to bear in mind that there is something and someone better ahead of us.

You're right. I got cheated on. I didn't know that they were still seeing each other behind my back while we were in a relationship, so that's why it happened. But I have forgiven them both.

Good to hear @failure93 , and it sounds like you're taking the right approach with this and handling it well.

Everything most certainly does happen for a reason and you will soon find out why.

I wish you the best!