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December 05, 2018, 12:56:01 AM
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ayyy1234


So basically long story short before my girlfriend and i got together she lost her virginity in a random fuck with my best mate in his car and i find myself thinking about it and how she regrets it and didnt like it and wish she had the courage to say no all the time and it really bothers me i find myself having panic attacks about it all the time and not being able to focus on work ect ect because of it and i just dunno what to do

December 13, 2018, 10:23:54 PM
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missg


So basically long story short before my girlfriend and i got together she lost her virginity in a random fuck with my best mate in his car and i find myself thinking about it and how she regrets it and didnt like it and wish she had the courage to say no all the time and it really bothers me i find myself having panic attacks about it all the time and not being able to focus on work ect ect because of it and i just dunno what to do

Aww, I don't blame you, I would also be the same, especially as you most likely love this girl.

It's difficult as whatever you do, say or think, nothing is going to change. I know that isn't what you want to hear, but it's the harsh reality.

You need to try and overcome this and move on if you want to build a successful relationship with this girl, dwelling on the past isn't going to help, and it isn't healthy for your relationship or your mental health.

You need to make a decision of whether you can move forward knowing that it happened. If it's making you unhappy then I would act on it, as there is no point being with this girl and being unhappy all the time! That isn't good for anyone but more importantly, that isn't good for your own well being.

I hope you can overcome it, the past is the past.

December 13, 2018, 10:24:13 PM
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missg


easier said than done though! let us know how you get on! @ayyy1234

 

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