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May 22, 2019, 08:08:18 AM
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    • My gf and I have been together for 2 years this month and have an 7 1/2 month old daughter together. My gf is 19 and I'm 23, we met in treatment so were both ex addicts. It was a long distant relationship for the first 10 months until she got pregnant and I moved down to work for her steb dad and to raise our daughter.

      Our whole relationship was really pretty good, had a few bumps here and there but who doesn't right? So about 2 weeks ago an old employee came down to help with the business and I had heard of him before, him and my gf used to hook up way before I met her and she was underage 14 or 15 and he was 23 or something like that.

      Anyway he shows up and I talk to him about how were trying to start a family and what not and he said he was strictly here for business.

      Long story short after a week of him being here my gf says she has to think about life after she gets off work one day and wasn't answering any of my calls, come to find out they were driving around and making out, and she tried to lie about it until I blately asked if she did in fact cheat on me. So I was way pissed off,  and broke up w/her. And called her all sorts of names since this was her second time cheating on me. (The first time I didnt find out until a when year after it happened)
      And I told her the next day that I still want to work things out but if she, saw him again than we wouldn't have a future together. The very next night she didnt  get home until 4am after I know she left her friends house at 11pm .

      Same thing she tried to lie and I had to drag it out AGAIN, and i was up all night waiting for her to get home freaking out because I knew what was going on. And same thing happened 2 days after while I was working. And come to find out hes been trying to tell her how in love he is with her and all this stuff since they had somewhat of a thing together in the past. And she just trying to protect me from getting my feelings hurt but shes also protecting him and it sucks and now she wants me to move out since we've been fighting this past week and she thinks we need time to heal.. and technically were broken up right now so I dont think she has intentions to stop talking to the guy and I told her it kills me that some guy could just come down and have such an impact on our lives and fuck up our family in a matter of a week.

      So now I'm staying at a hotel trying to heal and give her space and wait to see if we can work things out..

      Idk am i insane for putting up with all the BS? I do truly want to be with this girl for the rest of my life.. she is the daughter of my baby.. also any advice on what to do? I feel pretty stuck.. thanks

 

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