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Author Topic: Friend impersonated me to attack relationship

February 21, 2020, 10:50:55 AM
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There is a girl I went on a date with on this past Tuesday that I met off of Tinder and she is just amazing! We had so much in common and we really seemed to hit it off together and enjoy a real nice night. I got her number and we had already started to set plans for a next date. However, the day after I was with a friend and they asked to see my phone. Having no reason to believe in any mal-intent I gave the phone to her. It turns out she went into my Tinder and texted my date "You know what? Nevermind. I found someone else. And you were not that much fun either. So bye I guess. Thanks for yesterday though." I responded pretty quick to tell  her that my friend had my phone and said all of that and she said we were all good and that everything is ok. We ended up texting a little bit that night, but then she went dark. I figured she just went to bed and we would continue talking in the morning, but she remained quiet. I texted her back to say good morning and she never replied. Thinking that she may not entirely believe me on the situation I asked to call her yesterday thinking if she could hear my voice, maybe it'll be more reassuring for her (since we won't be able to see each other in person until this coming Monday). She responded almost instantly that she can't do a call because she was with her family (which I know was true). I asked her if she and her family were doing ok and I was left unanswered again.

I'm assuming I should give her a little space and breathing room, but I really don't know how to approach or remedy this situation. It just feels very defeating to think that I may be unable to fix this situation even though I didn't do anything wrong other than have trust in the wrong person. Has anyone gone through this too or have any ideas on how I might be able to approach this situation?
« Last Edit: February 21, 2020, 11:19:01 AM by GinjaNinja »
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