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November 02, 2019, 05:43:15 PM
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So I became good friends with a coworker of mine. We clicked immediately and became good friends. He’s 25 & has a girlfriend. They have been together for over 2 years and live together. I’m 22 and single.

We were work friends & would casually flirt, nothing too crazy. The flirting was amped up a little more but nothing was going on. I’ve always had a crush on him but never acknowledged it because of the girlfriend.

We barely talked outside of work, unless work related. Then he confessed to having feelings for me and said he wasn’t happy in his relationship. We’d text a lot, flirt and sweet talk each other. I thought I could control my feelings towards him. But I knew he had no intention of leaving his girlfriend, so I cut him off for a bit.

We talked things through (twice) about how we need to stop flirting, he needs to handle his business first, we should only be friends for now. He agreed and apologized. Not long after that we’re sending each other nudes, like idiots. When we get around each other it’s almost like boundaries and logic go out the window. We can’t control ourselves. He confessed he felt guilty about sending pictures & promised to back off. I doubt that’ll happen.

Long story short he feels neglected by his girlfriend, who works full time and goes to school. He is not entirely happy and he’s bored. He basically ended the conversation with saying... “I’m not just gonna break up with her. That’s a major life change because we live together”. As I’m typing this out I realized how stupid I sound but I love him. There’s a part of me that keeps telling myself to wait for him. We have a love for each other, we care about each other, we’re good friends & have each other’s back. We understand each other.

I just wanted an outside opinion on this because I’ve kinda been waiting for him to make a decision. But I have a feeling if I push him to make a decision, he’ll make the easy one of just staying with her. I know I won’t be happy with that. Your thoughts?
« Last Edit: November 02, 2019, 11:14:07 PM by SM2630 »

 

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