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Author Topic: Does loving mean getting hurt all the time in the end?

September 13, 2018, 09:04:34 AM
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When I was younger, my parents taught me that love is a beautiful thing and that it’s the most wonderful feeling an individual could feel. They taught me that I should love without condition and that I should love without regrets. I grew up believing that. I had my first boyfriend when I was 18 and everything seemed magical to me that time; I couldn’t get enough of the fact of him loving me. Unfortunately, it didn't work out for the both of us. I was heartbroken but I still held on to what I have learned from my parents. I kept loving until I became too broken that now, I could not fix myself. Tell me, is this supposed to be love? Until when will it keep hurting? When will it last? When will it stop or will it ever stop?

September 14, 2018, 11:14:21 AM
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When I was younger, my parents taught me that love is a beautiful thing and that it’s the most wonderful feeling an individual could feel. They taught me that I should love without condition and that I should love without regrets. I grew up believing that. I had my first boyfriend when I was 18 and everything seemed magical to me that time; I couldn’t get enough of the fact of him loving me. Unfortunately, it didn't work out for the both of us. I was heartbroken but I still held on to what I have learned from my parents. I kept loving until I became too broken that now, I could not fix myself. Tell me, is this supposed to be love? Until when will it keep hurting? When will it last? When will it stop or will it ever stop?

It WILL stop. You're hurting and upset, let yourself grieve for a little while. It's normal.

Everyone goes through heart break at some stage in their lives, the hurting will end, please take my word for it.

Surround yourself with positive people, do things you love and keep yourself occupied.

Let us know how you get on!
Your friendly neighborhood moderator.=)

 

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