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Author Topic: Does he have feelings for me?

May 13, 2019, 07:37:55 AM
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Bpenderr


So, I've been friends with a guy for 5ish years now, and we've always been super close because we have a lot if similar interests and mindsets, and, I developed feelings for him a couple of years ago.
Back in January, (bit of a side story, but it's important I swear), I was being completely ignored and shut out by my best friend of 3 years, and my crush, let's call him KJ, took notice. Him, his twin brother, and I started to become really close separate from my ex-best friends posse. When I eventually held up a middle finger and left the Snakes, KJ and his brother stuck with me. I later learned that KJ had only stuck around those three because of me, and he in fact hated all of them for quite a while now.
KJ has also been quite.. flirty with me, I think. (I'm so oblivious lol). Like, he'll smudge my glasses, take my stuff, break into my phone (with my permission), take my shoes, fall onto me [my school has these big one-person fluffy chairs that he likes to plop onto my lap on], make me fall onto him, and, of his own accord, he squished right next to me on one of those chairs on Friday, and it was extremely comfortable, ngl.
I dont know if he has feelings for me or not, and a lot of these flirty behaviours just started showing up within the last two months, and idunno if hes getting feelings for me or not and if I should start being a more obvious flirt or?? Sos 😭
"It suddenly struck me that, that tiny pea, pretty and blue, was the Earth. I put up my thumb, and shut one eye, and my thumb blotted out the planet Earth. I didn't feel like a giant. I felt very, very small."
-Neil Armstrong

May 14, 2019, 01:16:51 PM
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cahaya


H might be. I guess perhaps you should imply your feelings...

May 15, 2019, 12:57:30 AM
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Bpenderr


H might be. I guess perhaps you should imply your feelings...

I totally would, but I'm just scared as hell that he would distance himself from me afterwards; he's had issues with girls stalking him in the past so ://
But we both are pretty flirty with each other (he was legit jiggling my thighs today soo) what do you suggest?
"It suddenly struck me that, that tiny pea, pretty and blue, was the Earth. I put up my thumb, and shut one eye, and my thumb blotted out the planet Earth. I didn't feel like a giant. I felt very, very small."
-Neil Armstrong

May 15, 2019, 06:25:06 PM
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Sunshine918


From experience, if he has feelings he will eventually say something but I guess it depends on how patient you’re willing to be. Maybe see if you can have another friend feel it out for you and see if he’ll hint to anything

 

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