So, I've been friends with a guy for 5ish years now, and we've always been super close because we have a lot if similar interests and mindsets, and, I developed feelings for him a couple of years ago.
Back in January, (bit of a side story, but it's important I swear), I was being completely ignored and shut out by my best friend of 3 years, and my crush, let's call him KJ, took notice. Him, his twin brother, and I started to become really close separate from my ex-best friends posse. When I eventually held up a middle finger and left the Snakes, KJ and his brother stuck with me. I later learned that KJ had only stuck around those three because of me, and he in fact hated all of them for quite a while now.
KJ has also been quite.. flirty with me, I think. (I'm so oblivious lol). Like, he'll smudge my glasses, take my stuff, break into my phone (with my permission), take my shoes, fall onto me [my school has these big one-person fluffy chairs that he likes to plop onto my lap on], make me fall onto him, and, of his own accord, he squished right next to me on one of those chairs on Friday, and it was extremely comfortable, ngl.
I dont know if he has feelings for me or not, and a lot of these flirty behaviours just started showing up within the last two months, and idunno if hes getting feelings for me or not and if I should start being a more obvious flirt or?? Sos 😭

H might be. I guess perhaps you should imply your feelings...

I totally would, but I'm just scared as hell that he would distance himself from me afterwards; he's had issues with girls stalking him in the past so ://
But we both are pretty flirty with each other (he was legit jiggling my thighs today soo) what do you suggest?