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Author Topic: Do you believe people can change if they love someone?

August 22, 2018, 07:49:25 PM
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maine


Yes I do. 💕
I believe that part of being in a healthy relationship is having positive influence on one another and so love can change a person for the better. I think its easier for one to accept and follow advise from someone they love since they trust each other more and hence bring change. People who truly love each other ussualy work together towards certain goals which can be also to develop a good character and thus one can change for the better. 😍

August 22, 2018, 11:56:01 PM
Reply #1

sidica


I think people experiment a temporal change of behavior motivated for the love to someone, but if the bad behavior is not motivated by a real desire to become in a better version of themselves then that change is not gonna last.
The love has different stages; is easier to change on the first three years when the love is passionate and wild, because you want to please the other person and at the same time you receive affection, sex, and positive attention for doing it. But the next stage requires commitment and if the person is not deeply interested in the other, or hasn't supported his change of behavior by his own wish or motivation then there's always gonna be the temptation to go back to how he/she used to be.
There are some exceptions, but I think is not the rule.

August 23, 2018, 09:43:23 AM
Reply #2

Martinsx


Yes I do. 💕
I believe that part of being in a healthy relationship is having positive influence on one another and so love can change a person for the better. I think its easier for one to accept and follow advise from someone they love since they trust each other more and hence bring change. People who truly love each other ussualy work together towards certain goals which can be also to develop a good character and thus one can change for the better. 😍

If you are truly in love with someone, you are definitely going to live your life desiring to make the person happy because you can't bear to see him or her feeling bad because of what you did or what you didn't do.

Love is the most powerful psychological tool in the world today as men and women would go to any length all in the name of love. So, I believe that if one truly loves, he or she will do virtually anything to please his or her partner. If it requires changing, I'm sure the person will do more than that.

August 23, 2018, 09:52:02 AM
Reply #3

Rita101


If you love someone and you can't change for them, remember the change here is supposed to be a positive change and not a selfish change for the interest of the demanding partner, then it's not truly a pure love affair. But when it's a real love, I do believe that we can do anything to help make our love affair to be more strong.

But let's take into consideration when one of the parties is just being too selfish and wants to change their partner to a dummy all in the name of relationship and love, that's practically wrong and personally I won't be able to do such because it's more like losing my personality and becoming a different person.

August 23, 2018, 10:42:09 AM
Reply #4

Corzhens


In my case, I have changed my lifestyle before I got married. Our long relationship taught me how to adapt to my boyfriend's lifestyle starting with the food. I have learned to eat healthy foods and I began to enjoy little things like watching tv or walking at night for a short stroll. Looking back, the changes in me were all under the influence of my husband and I adapted to his lifestyle maybe to prove that I really love him.

August 23, 2018, 12:10:02 PM
Reply #5

wallet


I don't think someone can change, maybe for a while but in the end, their character and real behavior will rise on top. People do not change they adapt to a situation but when they feel frightened or just hate the actual situation they change back.

August 23, 2018, 02:21:41 PM
Reply #6

nekonieden


Yes maybe but I think they will change temporarily and then back to where he or she used before. I have an ex boyfriend who I have been thought that he will gonna change his life for me. Yes, he did change himself but as our relationship went far, I have noticed that as we became closer to each other for real, I can see his true image and from what I have thought that he would change for me it seems that he just do it for me to impress but as our relationship went that far, he just went back to his life where he used to be. How sad that they may be change but for a short period of time only. I don't want to generalized all since we are different from each other's view of point.
NekoniEden <3

August 24, 2018, 07:59:35 AM
Reply #7

anyone01


Indeed. I believe that people can change if they love someone because I experienced it to the girl I loved once before. She loves to read a books, eating in some fancy restaurant, she also has a good grade in school and I am exactly opposite to what she is Im just a boy who loves to play computer games and not really good at socializing. But when I started to like her I suddenly realize that I started to do what she do and love what she loved. And then the times go on she fell inlove to me and started a relationship happy  memories built in but after 2 years everything has changed she didnt love me anymore. And I started to change again but for worst I always go to casino, bar just to cheer my self up. Loving someone can change you but It can also change you by not loving you back.  :-\

August 24, 2018, 11:56:33 AM
Reply #8

Martinsx


I don't think someone can change, maybe for a while but in the end, their character and real behavior will rise on top. People do not change they adapt to a situation but when they feel frightened or just hate the actual situation they change back.

I think that change is something that is constant as we still live, we still change in some aspects of our lives. So, saying that people don't change might be too far fetched in my opinion because I'm sure that you are not the same man you were 20 years ago.

 

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