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Author Topic: Did I do the right thing??

October 01, 2019, 11:59:36 PM
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efh4401


So my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and due to his living situation he moved in with me and my family after a few months of us being together. We have lived together since then up until almost a year ago when he decided to start working with his uncle four hours away from me. It took me some time to adjust to him no longer being home but I got used to it and would be excited when he came home. Lately I have been starting to notice that he is slowly turning into somebody I dont even know. Before he moved there, we would spend a lot fo time with one another and always be going on fun dates or just riding around having deep meaningful conversations, but now he goes gambling, drinks a lot more and has been disregarding me. He will slowly stop texting me back and I wont get a response for hours, yet during that time he is active on social media and liking a bunch of girls posts. We started to fight more often but we would always be able to forgive one another. These past few times he has been home though it seems that all he wants is sex. When he is home he will just take me out to dinner then want to go hangout with friends and expects sex when we get home. He is also always talking about how he has to leave in however many days it is. He also lies to me about when he needs to leave to be back for work and ends up leaving weeks before he needs to be back. This last time he was home I discovered that he had been lying to me and hiding things from me and it has only just thrown me. He has never lied or hid anything from me before, we have always been completely honest with one another. Since discovering this I'm not sure I can trust him anymore and the more I think about everything, the more it seems like he has another girlfriend up where he is living. I decided to tell him that we need a break because I think the both of us need to think about what it is we truly want and I explained that in detail to him as well as some other aspects of our relationship.

Did I do the right thing in saying we need a break or am I overreacting? Finding out that he lied and hid stuff from me felt as if I just found out he was cheating.

Side note: I love this boy with my whole heart and I don't want to lose him, but I know I need to face reality so if I just ask that whoever responds to this, please respond with your honest opinion or your honest advice, no matter how harsh you may think it is.
« Last Edit: October 02, 2019, 12:04:00 AM by efh4401 »

October 02, 2019, 09:39:28 PM
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Petopetosan


I think you should just dump him.






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October 27, 2019, 10:32:33 AM
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Bhersh01


You did the right thing. Sounds like he needs to take some time to find out what he wants, because if he did care about you he wouldn't behave that way. Yeah, it hurts and it sucks. But sometimes we need that to learn from and to make sure it doesn't happen in the next relationship.

 

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