I have been with my fiance for a year and a half we live together and at the beginning of living together the sex was frequent every day pretty much and a couple times a day at times now q year later its more like once or twice a week and 99 percent of the time she initiates because if I initiate I usually get rejected  she tells me she wants me to.be more confident like I was before but rejection has taken that away and whenever I do come in confidently I get rejected what do I do