My fiancee and I have been together for six years now (engaged for 4).  When we first got together, his deal breaker was that he eventually wanted to be a dad, and mine was that I'd like to get married someday. I didn't want to have children and told him that. He said he wasn't against getting married in the future. Well, we eventually got pregnant (whoops!) and we made a deal that after our baby was born, we'd start talking about getting married and when and where our wedding should be. We even shook hands on it! Our son is now 14 months old and we've never discussed getting married. When I recently asked him about it, he said that he changed his mind and no longer wants to get married. So I now feel used, heart broken and betrayed. He backed out on our "deal" even though I blessed him with a beautiful, healthy baby boy. He knows how much it means to me to get married, but still says he never wants to now, even though he's happy in our relationship. He said that we don't need a piece of paper to prove we love eachother. I've never felt so lost, hurt and confused in my entire life. It feels like my heart was ripped from my chest. What do I do?!