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Author Topic: Boyfriend has a "side piece"

February 22, 2020, 02:47:39 PM
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Lilb04


Hi all,
Hope you can help. Long story cut short... I have been with my partner for 5 years, live together all was great. September time we started to have problems, he thought I was breaking up with him and went distant. I was told he was flirting with someone and then he stopped because of me. He currently talks"to a friend" at work however she has always been the problem in our relationship.
He refuses to stop talking to her.
He broke the screen on his phone a few months back and so is using my old phone. He doesn't realise that every pic he receives it goes to his old phone and he has a screen shot of a message from this woman. It says :
"I know I am a side piece, I actually feel OK about it. I know you'd change your life in a heart beat but it's..." then the message disappears. Now I've not shown my partner this however I have asked him if he has someone on the side. He said no I don't blah blah blah only wants me.
I was thinking of just leaving it and moving on however, I have thought possibly to send the pic and others from his phone to all his contacts in email Inc him and me in it and then he has to properly explain it. I know it's a rubbish thing to do but I can't stop thinking about it.
What can I do?

February 25, 2020, 09:11:22 PM
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NicoBre


If you still want to be with him you should talk to him about this, but don't call him out in front of everyone. I think your chances are best if you talk with him privately and show him the proof. This is kind of lying but maybe say that you stumbled across the texts instead of actively searching for proof because that might make him get all mad and defensive. I don't think you did anything wrong with checking to see if your partner was cheating, but he'll probably try to put the blame on you instead of admitting what he did wrong. Best of luck!

April 06, 2020, 11:31:50 PM
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