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Author Topic: Awkward situation with a girl

July 21, 2019, 11:17:29 PM
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boyboyboy


I started talking to a girl I really like a couple months ago at the university I'm attending, and we seemed to get along fairly well. I developed feelings for her and as a result I developed a lot of nervous energy around her as well which ended up making our interactions a lot more awkward. Ever since our last semester ended, we stopped seeing each other in person as we don't have any classes we're taking together this semester. She's been returning my messages a lot less as of late, and I'm not sure whether I should take a break from messaging so that she could forget about our awkward phase and catch up with her again if we ever have any classes together in the future, or if I should try to push with the messages more to try to fix things and get her more comfortable around me.

August 08, 2019, 09:35:29 AM
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mindhunter882


I would back off with the messages to give you both time to think about it. How about a week? See if she texts you first. If she doesn't, hit her up with an honest message. Maybe ask her to meet up with you so you can both talk about it face to face to clear up any misunderstandings.
piece out

August 12, 2019, 02:10:26 PM
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ladybug7321


I would give the situation a little bit of space. She may not even be trying to give you any negative signals, being in school it is likely she has just gotten really busy! Maybe just tone down the frequency of messages and come back to it in a couple days or weeks. Maybe restart a conversation with something you know you have in common, something she would find interesting or funny, or maybe when your paths cross again at school through classes or other means. Good luck!

 

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